We hear people say life is not a race. You don’t have to worry about not being successful at your age. But I say that’s an excuse to be complacent. Time is ticking, and you have to pursue your dreams now.
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Time is ticking…
As I write this, the seconds go by, never to come back. Time, unlike money, is finite, a resource we can’t have more of. Start asking yourself, was the time I spent on this activity buying me more stocks to reach my dreams? Or was it invested in an obvious loss?
Here is an interesting chart that shows your life in weeks, and how much you have left, assuming you live up to 90.
The results can be quite eye-opening, especially when you realize that this is based on the precarious assumption that we will live until we’re 90. Chances are, we may not. We don’t really know how long we have left to live.
Which brings us to this frustrating fact: you don’t have forever to do what you want. Be fearful, just a little. Be fearful of regret and not taking the opportunity, because it might not come knocking again. You are aging. And that’s not always a bad thing. But with age comes a set of different choices and priorities that might close doors to things you want.
Pursue your dreams
Now that we know time is ticking, we have to start pursuing our dreams. We have to know what we want and work hard to reach it. We can’t sit through our corporate job while waiting for a breakthrough to come while answering emails. Maybe sometimes it does for some lucky people. But 99% of the time, it doesn’t. You have to make it happen.
How? I know it is harder said than done. I myself didn’t know what I wanted when I wrote this 2 years ago. If you don’t know what it is you want, you might know what it is you don’t like. Ask yourself:
- Are you happy in your job and current career?
- Do you see yourself working there long-term?
- What goals do you hope to achieve in that career?
- Does it help you become the person you want to be?
As you begin to answer these questions, you might realize a few things. Dig deeper.
- Am I doing what makes me happy?
- If not, what are the things that make me smile and lose track of time?
- I am good at…
- Who do you envision yourself to be?
It would be helpful to answer these questions alone. Also, be conscious of any inner judgment. Simply write what comes to mind and let go of any criticism or questions that may arise. Sometimes, we subconsciously know what it is that we really want to do with our lives. However, we bury it deep under our insecurities, doubts, and fears.
Once you figure out what it is you want to do and who you want to be, start taking concrete steps even in the smallest daily decisions (like taking 30 minutes from binge-watching shows to answer these questions). Set a plan on how you can be closer to this dream of yours. Accomplish that plan, one step at a time.
Choose to live fully
This is not to say that you should just drop everything and work like a robot without rest towards your goals. Rather, it is making the choice to do things not on autopilot mode, but with a goal and purpose in mind. Since time is finite, don’t just squander it on pointless activities (it’s up to you what you consider pointless). Here’s a personal example: mindless scrolling on the web and wondering where all my time went.
What you want to do instead is to invest your time in the things that matter to you, things that’ll help you reach your dreams and who you want to be. This of course varies from person to person, so you have to be be aware of what those are to you. For example, if family, health, and passion mattered the most to me, then I would ensure the majority of my time would be spent on those 3 things and the betterment of each.
Once you become more aware of these things, you start living more fully. Days don’t fly by with you feeling unfulfilled or restless. Because you know where your time is going, because you are consciously making decisions towards your goals, you know life is worth living. It is not some empty shell to be filled with activities to have some semblance of life, nor some competition in the amassing of material things to keep up appearances. It is simply your own and what you make of it.
Act now
So start living fully and pursue your dreams. Taking the first step is the hardest partβin my opinion. This is because it’s so easy to procrastinate, so easy to daydream and think, I’ll do it when I’m free, or after this project is done, or tomorrow. But again, time is ticking. What you started yesterday could be what brings you happiness and success tomorrow. So why are you putting it off?
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myrkabarcenas
Thanks for this! I was planning to leave my job end of April to pursue other goals. Unfortunately, with the current situation, I am not putting that on hold. But, I am going to start applying for other jobs.
Kathleen
You’re welcome! I know, this situation is impacting all of us in so many different ways. But it’s good that you are starting to open up to the idea of something new, if your current job is not where you see yourself long-term. π
unknown21081993
very nice and informative article…
Kathleen
Thank you!
Britt | Shed Happens (@ShedHappenscmty)
This is a great post! A few years ago I completely left my career, went back to college and changed the direction of my work life entirely – the reason why? I simply wasn’t happy in the career that I found myself ‘trapped’ working. I didn’t like going to work, I didn’t feel fulfilled by the job and there were changes in the industry that were making me dislike it more and more. It made a HUGE difference in my mental and emotional health by taking this step and finding something that lined up with my passions.
Kathleen
Wow, I can totally relate! I just left my previous career and am starting to rediscover the things I really love doing. I also felt so trapped back then…It really is life-changing! I’m glad it worked out well for you. β€
Crystal
That chart really puts things in perspective, doesn’t it?! Being laid off a couple years ago gave me time to focus on what I really want to do… And the current state of things is giving me time to work on it!
Kathleen
Yeah! When I saw it I was so glad I finally started doing things I wanted to for a long time. π Wonderful! That just shows there’s always a silver lining…we just don’t always see it immediately. π
Philip
Not a bad article but this made me a little depressed. I don’t like thinking about how much time I have left.
Kathleen
Hi Philip, I’m sorry to hear that. I hope you take it as encouragement to do what it is you really love. You can either spend time thinking about how much you have left (which will be impossible to truly know), or accept that we don’t have infinite time on our hands which is why we should learn to spend it wisely. π All the more reason to live fully and purposefully each day so we have no regrets.
Kendall
Loved this article!
Kathleen
Thank you so much! <3 I'm happy you liked it.
jentowkaniuk
One of my biggest fears is waking up at 70 years old filled with regret that I didn’t take action on my dreams. Love the chart. Got me inspired to get out of my comfort zone today.
Kathleen
Oh my gosh! I had the same thought back then as well. That pushed me to leave my previous career and start writing. π I’m so glad you liked it! π
Kari @ Esavingsblog.com
Great reminder! I think we often go through the day like a robot and forget to live. Taking care of my grandmother until she passed at 94 was very eye opener and I try to use that to fill my life with positive and no drama. Life is short and we want to have meaning for being here. I started my blog to help to people with their personal finances and hope to pursue my dream of growing it to help more people. That is my dream :).
Kathleen
Yes, that’s true. We run on autopilot mode and just go through the motions each day. Yes, I’m glad you think that. We do need to live more deliberately and more meaningfully. That’s wonderful! I wish you success in your dream. I know you’ll make it. π
macy!
Great post! Really gets you thinking ?
Kathleen
Thank you! π
Matt (Melvin:Motivate, Elevate and Inspire)
Very inspiring! We donβt maximize our time like we should be and instead make excuses and blame others for our lack of success
Kathleen
Thank you! That’s true, we make excuses because we don’t want to look at the reality that we can actually do something about it. We often choose the easier path which is to just sit down, do what we’ve always done, and place the blame on situations or other people. What we fail to realize though, is that we only have one life, and the longer it takes for us to take action, the more likely we’ll wake up one day looking back with regret at all the things we could’ve done but didn’t.
lsinanan
This is so true, time is always passing we have to do what we love in order to be happy! it may be scary but its true!
Kathleen
Yes! And we have to start now! π
lsinanan
Very true!
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revitalizecw
This is such a great post for anyone to read. I think that the idea that time is finite sparks even more motivation, at least for me, by not taking anything for granted. I love your weekly checklist! That is the perfect way to track your goals and weekly to-dos with still being simple. Thank you so much for sharing this!
Kathleen
Thank you so much! I’m glad you felt motivated…that’s exactly how I felt when I thought about it too. π We should take it as a reminder that we don’t have unlimited time to do what we want and reach our dreams, so we should start now! π Yaay, glad you liked it! π
Natascha
Wow, such an extensive and in-depth article! absolutely loved it!!! thank you so much for sharing!
Kathleen
Thanks, Natascha! I’m glad you liked it! Hope it inspired you to pursue your dreams! π
Jordan
Every word <3 had a big shift in my life! You are on point.
Kathleen
I’m so happy I was able to inspire you, Jordan! <3 Thank you so much for dropping by!
Isuru
Thanks for this great article. I’ve always liked viewing time as a finite resource that you don’t to waste. I also fully agree that taking the leap and making that first step is the hardest. Thank you for the information and inspirational post!
Kathleen
Thanks, Isuru! True, not a lot of people see time that way which is why many tend to waste so much of it! I’m glad you liked it! π
thehobbithold
Having a visual chart to remind us of how much is left is a very powerful way to encourage people to do the things they want but do not dare to take the first step. This works especially for those that tend to procrastinate. I never thought of this kind of chart, but everytime I celebrate a birthday I do tend to count how close am I to the next 1/4 or 1/3. As my birthday is in the last month of the year, I must admit that this way of thinking has spurred me to take more action the following year. Great post, very inspirational! Thank you for sharing it with us.
Kathleen
I’m so glad you liked it! That’s so true, many people think we have an infinite number of years but seeing it in a chart really puts things into perspective! Wow, I don’t do that on my birthdays but that is one way to spur you into action! π Thanks for sharing your tip too! <3